30-year-old men need to change the standard of love
December 17th, 2010

At thirty three years old when we should have something, or is the cause, or is love, if you Semis not to, then you should attach importance to their own process of failure, why no progress in my feelings.

Hello long time gun

My question is: I have 112 days to 30 years old, my family introduced a 23-year-old girl, yesterday I had QQ, a video, do not feel, my mother insisted I was dying to go back to see live I am afraid, I have a standard, I could not help but fear that their parents request, I do not feel ready, I feel awful, I also endeavor to find, I also recognized a good man, but I do not know why, is not Women edge, my Saturdays and Sundays to run 1,500 kilometers by car to go back, not for anything else, just to make filial heart feel so hard so hard.

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Everyone says they have standards, but never considered whether the criteria of their own reality, if you only dream of flowers, then again what the U.S. is only illusory. Why is there no woman edge to improve their own worth, or you are not interested in women around or feeling, no matter what kind of love did not benefit, women will not appreciate a man self-expensive, nor their men do not feel tempted, you are not insulators, love is not there from the beginning, but it takes time and energy to operate, and own their feelings get it working, there will be women, and affinity for it?

Only video on the denial of a person, you can say the standard is only a woman’s appearance, not internal. Some people always sigh, beautiful women around how men are inconsistent, but you look inconsistent, it is merely complementary aesthetic point of view, good men are not won by a woman looks, but their charm.

Man how to run their own charm, not to say that you know how much a woman, but how much he could love a woman, if you always put a woman on the insulation around the state, then you rely on to win the love. Man needs in the process of growing the same failure, and only failed to tell you how to succeed, not the woman’s problem, we must first examine their own.

Some people say: men charm a woman out of repair, while others say: men’s charm is wearing out, it is more growth out of the 30-year-old 30-year-old man should have the maturity and charm, not even their goals can not be locked.

Blind date is a process, if the opportunity did not even intimate to themselves, Who then will give you the opportunity.

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2010, 10 married women pay attention to the issue of marriage
November 10th, 2010

1: Every man has a childlike innocence, and women appreciate his attitude or point of view things are different, if he is always pointing to your weaknesses, the same behavior you are told himself, he also has shortcomings, the course of time the accused, only To lose more feelings for each other.

So, you have to learn to appreciate, learn to accept and learn to lead. Marriage is the case, and you appreciate his merits, he also appreciate your advantage.
2: The problem does not fit in the bed to find the answer, with the need for punishment of men, the same punishment of his own, punishment will only accelerate the pace of a man running off the track.

3: When you have the whole world, lost for the whole family, when the whole family when you have lost the whole world, to learn each other to have, not the loss of self, a man, just enjoy the attractive woman.
4: Marriage is the beginning of the Pan-flavor of life, your daily life guarding before, when her husband did not love so passionate, always paranoid stranger than her husband to understand you.
5: child suppository not a man, not a marriage, and family responsibilities, is a combination of love and marriage, and not get the happiness he had been.
6: Men always have numerous bad habits, just remember his advantage, marriage is not a lack of love.
7: No self-confidence of women always ask men to be emotional, how do you believe that feeling.
8: only one failed marriage, we do not love, successful marriage, only that we loved, and women must learn to find a low level of marriage.
9: The network is always the most unreal, the more you believe him, the more your marriage failed.
10: Remember: marriage is because of the love alive.

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And divorce a man in love against their parents experienced
October 19th, 2010

Meet many accidents and the accident has meant that many twists and turns, each feeling the way there are many twists and turns, lucky person belongs to has insisted.

We encounter so that he and I produced ineffable love! We have a difference of 16 years, when I first saw in the company I was a mature man he was deeply attracted by temperament, and impressed with him, although he liked was deep, but still on the inside. Because he is a family man, I know how to sense of propriety! An accidental opportunity, I called over to register the master of my information, the way should I contact, and he happened to be next, I casually said that my number one … linked to finish my master’s phone call to my cell phone ring, and carefully, I saw a stranger do not edit the number, are surprised that I gave him a look, he smiled a secret smile. Oh. . . Know who has? ! At that time I did not think about input directly edit the Rights of the phone.

story has just begun. Naturally expect that all of the other number, I liked him there, making friends does not matter, but I did not do so, we do not have contact. (At that time he and his wife have separated) probably had for a while, bored to see his room plucking phone number, his cell phone to hold it there or from time to time in the secret heart from hi. So I made a message to him. Later, we get along so down I asked him for the first time send a message to you, how you are feeling, he said: “The excitement … It turned out he, like me, when I first saw each other give each other leave impressed. The reason why he did not take the initiative to me because he can not, because he knows his position. on the way we contact each day, talk about his life experience, to talk about my college life, but we never said ambiguous words. also described how he and his wife do. He had married late, because the young have the time for marriage, parents have repeatedly urged, is our blind date the most corny way, form a couple. is because their parents liked her then, her cute and naive, and her office are civil servants, his family very well, she first saw him fell in love with him, perhaps because of his age at that time, plus parents are so like themselves reluctantly agreed. can he not love her, he said: “No one saw the other side, there are so rapid heart beat, there is a sense of excitement. “Then listen, he said, shortly after their marriage, he was his original company to the field trip. In this way, they are getting stranger. He:” and I called the phone, do not add up and his wife talking a long time. They do not quarrel without trouble, but relations have been no better. One time he and his mother that he wanted to divorce her, his mother said: “Watching live like you I have pain, may have small children so he is on it! Son felt his mother’s voice, only to sigh! time day by day, we do still send text messages, then we have to talk about very sweet. I remember meeting him in all earnestness, and I said: “He should go back to do a thing, did not say what to do. “I also know something done situation, we did not say so.

a divorce for him to run back. I feel bad that they felt undermined the family. I am a sinner! I put the case against him that he would fire, gas fire, said to me, :”##, you listen to me, not you destroyed my family, without you before I met her in the marriage relationship has on the edge, and only God I met you, you can encounter not-desired, let me in during the period of marriage have made a choice, I very painful to her, only to level the feet! not your fault, you know, even if you do not appear, I was to divorce her! “

him into a single, they can come right and I love, but can not work because how can tolerate my parents than I 16 years old, but also divorced. So we turned into an underground guerrilla warfare. However, the final paper or contain the fire. Parents feel like a bolt from the blue as I learned that some relentless words: “To you together, can ah, unless the two of us to die to meet you.” The one hand, my family, one is my favorite, I really hard to choose. Methods exhausted parents and confiscated cell phones, keys, and was even once they close. . . . My life became so unbearable, I hate myself like my age to find a Haohao Di, why I met God we seek him, still love hopeless. . . One time, I went out looking for him, Who would have thought was my father tracked. Was my father discovered, flew tore his chest clothes to my house, along the way, many passers-by were looking at his company also has a head the elite, while in a foreign land, where he lived in the town also has a lot of people know him. My father is too proud for that time so he definitely will act angry. After returning home, my dad also took his clothes and hold my mom asked how my dad’s going, he said, “They were the two I just caught red-handed to meet” my mother a slap in the face to go up two. . . The dignity of a man it has been my parents to use force to punish him. I was scared to cry. . .

if a man is not really for you, love you! I would like something like this down, he must retreat, or so my parents thought him talk about it, what meaning. But he has not done so, he was always as before. I broke up with him on many occasions mentioned that he and I experienced so many things (in this I am not going to explain). He said, “how do you do things is your thing, how can I do things no one can stop, and I have never loved a girl, people can experience true love in life It is not easy and we all love both the other, it is unforgettable! “

I always told myself: “without the blessings of family and friends, no matter how we love all in vain!” I love him But I can not take into account the health care of me my parents endured sufferings! I often deliberately provocative, he said: “You do not trouble me, then I do not feel comfortable, like a child with me and Dances of temper, but no matter how busy playing, he was always modest me, never angry with me, forever he’s small landlords, forever I prevail, but the premise is that there is no more than the degree, the so-called principle! “heavier meaning of this principle, I understand what he means!

In addition to age, he occasionally “spoiled” and also his “cute” and the maturity of the place! He always believed were clouds part observe the moon! Finally I wish you all: “Money makes the mare!”

Many insist on the need for love itself, and adhere to the purpose, which is the choice you think you can get a more happy marriage, no matter how the parents insist it is only being her daughter’s sake, they just love the cornerstone of the test, and not terminate your happy start.

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Primary three would rather pay 500 000 and he divorced her husband
August 4th, 2010

Marriage is the brutal battlefield of love, or failure or success. Withdrawal is a strategy, courage is a kind of feeling, which is a violation of marriage into the main core is your man.

Marriage 8 months, derailed the spirit of last month found that Mr.
Talked to him three weeks ago, I found that they had contact.
I asked my husband thought about how to solve, he said that did not want a divorce, can not help myself.
She has a family, they are on business knowledge.
She will cook, do housework, did flight attendants, tour guides, civil servants, she would jump Latin, will blow Hulusi, a word very capable.
Her husband of domestic violence, also raped her, which she gave my husband said.
My husband said he is a kind of appreciation she began, then love and affection.
By the end of July, she and her husband wrote the divorce agreement, but did not sign the agreement in all the property of her husband should leave him out of her purification households, but also give the man 500 000.
She also called my husband crying and said her husband was hit, also raped her.
My husband and I love married 7 years, there have been such a thing, I asked him what the problem between us, why he derailed, he cried and I said no problem between us is he is too jerk was.
When I started the special hate him, hate him betrayed.
Can see that he cried again and again, I relented.
I asked him how to deal with, he does not know, he could not bear and I divorced, after all, there are 8-year relationship, but he also felt that if she divorced because he was away, and then I’m sorry she was.
2 August my husband and I, sitting with her three.
She says to consider the overall situation, she did not want my husband and I divorced, has also been good for me to persuade my husband. But I told her that you have been linked, I can feel safe?
She asked me: “Do you want me how?”
She said she would contact my husband again and not people (and my husband on the afternoon telephone again), she and I texted that she will leave, let me give my husband a chance.
Faced with such a woman, I suddenly felt very helpless, do not Nenggen parents say such things, for fear that they hurt beverages, a person can only digest, too bad.
August 5 and she contacted my husband, said she limited her mother is now a free, evening watching her and her husband sleep in a bed, her mother was sleeping.
I filed for divorce, my husband refused to divorce me and he said that his influence is too great. Let me give him time to think about choose? He did not say how long to decide, I now more often with his family feeling between, but the lack of passion between the lovers. To be a metaphor, I am milk every day to drink that did not taste, but she is coffee, a strong stimulus to his taste.
Saturday is 8, her text messages to my husband to divorce her, and that life is a failure to commit suicide. My husband told me that I let my husband called her to persuade her not to do anything silly. I think if she really died, my husband would be guilty life.
My husband has urged her to persuade her through, my husband found her not really want to commit suicide, but at the moment.
She also sent me a text message that she hurt me and my husband. Said that if she and my husband together, may also become a long time soy milk.
9 pm to my husband kept her hair short message, said the two of you be agreeable, she soon divorced and the like.
10, send text messages she said she was divorced, said she will wait for my husband to make a choice.

11, the night she text messages that she want to live, said she died with my husband and I have a relationship, my husband called again to persuade her.

Faced with this situation, I think a lot of things I will not mention the divorce, but I am really helpless.

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Love you man body, the spirit of love with her, is his spirit, so that third parties can not change ourselves, feel that they finally met the man, but this good man, is a marriage, there are marriage doomed to harm a third party is smart, she knows your weakness, know your strengths, know what your man needs a woman and passion, and you just calm him down a stone, he can not stand the wind breeze, of course, the more conniving you can not make the completion of the third party action, is a threat.

You love him? Love can bear vacate their space, not love, give women a painful rely on their own relief, and relief to others.

Each woman will be feeling their way to choose, if you not afford the game, the end may be the best way, in the absence of strong-minded men who work hard, not as good as to consider how to choose their own future.

Men do not want a third party, who would gain a foothold in other people’s marriages, not men love women Italian, who was lying in bed with you unfamiliar to sleep, do not believe he only love you, do not believe that she loved you, marriage may be dissolved, betrayal and the time is to disband.

Hello long time gun

I have a four-year-old woman with more than a year of exchanges, fell in love with her, She is my mature life, I think they own the family is responsible, has been keen to have a feeling outside of marriage She’s there because of what my brother needs her help, and we are employees of the same system, I was in Beijing, Changsha, she, her envy of others have a family, husband, daughters are very good, but she told me that she In fact, with her husband in name only. The beginning of my work or interpersonal problems in what often ask her, slowly, she felt very dependent on her trust, with the exchanges, but she really does have a great need for additional feelings, so they walked on together. Later, because the system in some of her colleagues I know, one of her colleagues had a relationship (I am not sure to what extent, what she told me no, but the feelings of other people say the point has been stretched to the limit), then her colleagues found that very poor man, and slowly separated, which I always knew, but did not say, because I do not care about the things I already knew, but last month, over and over again that she and the other people I also know the feelings of my colleagues have had (I still do not know to what extent, people still say that the point has been to together), heard the news, I really can not control, I’m vague, ask, asked the man to her , because once she asked this person to eat (the person to travel to Beijing), I showed the unhappy, she said, all I think about, and I know that a person should love and trust, but gossip is really affected I judge her, I asked myself, do not mind her own determined past, but I do not like this was her feeling cheated after the hide, may I not sure the authenticity of those rumors, would like to ask, but also it would hurt her, was she mistaken distrust affect feelings. Do not ask, but it is in times of suffering with love, how can I do?

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Extramarital affairs is bound to require painful, even their love can not guarantee that the man or woman, how can we talk about trust, she is more than one sex if the woman taste like extra-marital affairs.

Two people have marriage, then the feelings of the rich is an injury on the family, if the non-take out like extra-marital love as a woman does not care unless your feelings.

We are not saints, have feelings, and if their marriage can not guarantee happiness, but also to protect what means the happiness of extra-marital affairs.

Select pot, we are not the merits of value, but the following shortcomings, above even the best, following leak and no one to go to the rotten pot. Barrel is also the longest one that depends on the lowest height, select the character of your life, the same is true, she (he) merits further perfect, but, you see his faults, can use the Pool 1 eyes closed to hide the feelings of one eye.

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Happy cube in the field of Shanghai-law wife
June 30th, 2010

Feeling more and more diversified, the problem more complicated, two people get married say their own things, neglecting the composition of families, parents have a choice daughter of powers, such powers can be for reference only, but also about your choices, we can not blame who is old, but everyone has their own selection criteria, who insisted I could not agree who insist that some things is time to slowly accept.

The future wife of hepatitis B virus carriers, but also a foreign person employee, also worked as her so-called illegitimate occupation. When we are scolded Shanghai-law, we are standing on the feelings of a wife’s perspective, not the location of standing spectators.

Everyone has their own selection criteria, her mother does not think the girl for her son, must have her reasons, the door does not properly account appears in the old concept of most people, while ignoring the feelings of value, does not mean she can not accept her can not accept, but she did not like this girl, that is not pleasing to the eye watching every mother want their son to well-being, rather than the pain of life.

We kicked cursed, we should also look for the sake of the future wife, rather than the presence of numerous side to blame the audience who, everyone has an antagonistic mentality, the more you like I do in the past, the more I will not let you past Even if your words are shells, the amount only embolden it.

We are open to feelings, not to lose but to maintain that marriage is not who denounced the General Assembly, each person has the power to choose, rather than someone else’s choice for the center.

Even if you say the big truth, not everyone received the same treatment of each person’s experience of marriage is different means to bear the difference. You say you can change yourself, you can accept the position of housewives also make things difficult for you to face the mother of her husband’s study abroad, in a broken and seemingly full of feelings, our consciousness always remind myself that I can do better to know that we do not live in the idealistic, but in real life, the concept of strong families, such controversy is not just this time, there may be ten or twenty times, perhaps you will find yourself beginning What a terrible choice is the result, love, two people can make decisions, while the marriage the two families need to make a decision, I would like to have you feeling well married, this is not the old concept, but the real world, What is that these concepts experienced practice and lessons.

She always said: I can accept, the answer is so subconscious that we married say, now that these are not the result I wanted, my results are to be married. In this painful and emotional struggle, you clearly what role they play it? Strong woman, girls from outside, underwear models, cheating on girls, All of the characters that you need off the corner too, need to be a space can accommodate you all your struggle is a good future for themselves, relying on the safety of .
Furthermore, said inner insecure woman, treatment will be so, otherwise you will not contact the same time and the two men.

There are many feelings of their own mistakes, He Bijiang seek perfection and perfect it, marriage is not necessarily a good thing, not to marry is not necessarily a bad thing, mind you know her mother, her boyfriend’s attitude you will understand that the past always said let him be there People always think of the past, his endurance is not so strong you are, so they can not afford the choice will be selected.

Hello long time gun

My feelings are complex history, I have intimate knowledge of the military two years ago, has been telephone contact, he is a honest person, I could see he was live man. So I have and he plans to get married, but we are in different places, the feelings are not see warming. Six months later I met Scott, he was 30 years old than me, he is a businessman, is also feeling lonely people were injured, and I am in contact several times, I feel, and I get along very nice, very relaxed, in his pursuit, I was with him, and he is not my favorite type, and age gap, I have no feelings for him, and his days of getting along, he felt very good to me, that I was his to find the other half, also had married my requests. And with him six months after I returned home and military engagement, and can not find a few days Wei army sent some of my ambiguous information, I told him frankly all that I and Wei. He said that if I marry him, something in the past that he can forgive me, do not blame me, may my heart always felt this is something we will impact the future of marriage, I hesitated at home over a period of time I ready to work, I came to Scott’s that city, and Wei to live together, I am going to break off an engagement and the military, but the military refused, he promised he would not to worry about it, he knows me and Wei is live together, I still hesitate, I do not want my marriage any flawed.

I love spoken twice already that I would not love a person, and I find people who can get married like marriage, but the age difference between Scott and I then I backed out, I am suffering, I ask how can I do?

The result is to have a love marriage, and men do not talk about marriage and feelings, you only pay a lot more, but will not get the results you want. Everyone want their emotions firmly ground, not floating the air, unless you choose to do so.

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